2009 audi a3 1.9tdi. Drivers door will not open from inside or outside. I have tried to use the key manually in the door slot but will not work.. any help would be appreciated 

Hello Zeshan, 

I think you will have to call upon the expertise of a local locksmith who has experience in dealing with your situation - or a local nare-do-well who can get into any car in record time - armed with appropriate non-damaging tools. 
Breakdown services should be able to assist, but may not do so if access can be gained through the other doors. 
Having said all that, first port of call if it were mine would be a local independent. 
Kind regards,

Gareth.

so you can get into the car using the remote key option, i also take it that you can start your car and drive it ?

next step is to strip the door card off and look at the door lock linkage.

good luck

If you can actually remove the offending door card in situ. 
Kind regards,

Gareth.